Stop Apologizing for Having Boundaries


You know that weird gut-drop feeling when you say no and immediately feel like a terrible person?

This week on The Balanced Badass Podcast™, I'm pulling the curtain back on one of the sneakiest emotional traps high-achievers fall into: boundary guilt.

That knee-jerk shame spiral that shows up any time you try to say, “Hey, I actually don’t have capacity for that.”

I get it. I've lived it. I've said yes while having literal panic attacks before meetings. Not because I wanted to... but because I felt like I had to.

This episode unpacks:

  • Why we feel guilty for doing something as basic as protecting our energy
  • How guilt fuels burnout
  • What it’s really costing you
  • And how to start rewiring the guilt response

Plus, I share my G.A.S. Check—a tool I teach my coaching clients to help them decide if a yes is coming from guilt, alignment, or fear of missing out.

If you’ve been people-pleasing on autopilot and you're ready to get off that train, this episode is your permission slip.

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Breaking Up With Guilt: Why...
Mar 27 · The Balanced Badass Podc...
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Because listen—you’re not here to be a human support ticket.

Say no. Mean it. And don’t apologize for being a balanced badass.

Talk soon,

Tara